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EMPATHY... Know it and control it

 
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Lilly
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 3:05 pm    Post subject: EMPATHY... Know it and control it Reply with quote

Empathy is a psychic ability, one of the most ancient healing arts, one of the most heightened form of clairsentience.
Everyone is a natural empath. When we cry at a movie that's just simple an empathic response. The media is using advertising thru music and images to create empathic responses in those who watch TV. This is actually manipulation and if we are not aware of it, we suffer.

As a healer you deal with people’s pain and illnesses, mental, emotional problems, dark entities, cords, implants and so on.
But if we are unaware of our ability it can create problems to us. Empathic people need to pay attention to and honor what they feel.
Picking someone’s aches or pains as a healer or sensing dark energy as a booster its normal to an empath but it is usually just a passing phase and should not persist. You should not absorb someone’s pain or let yourself corded, letting their distress be the source of your pain and stress.

Sometimes it is difficult to determine whether the feelings you are picking are yours or someone else’s energy. Empathy is one of the most difficult abilities to control. If you don’t know how to control this ability you become depleted of energy and your immune system will become weakened, and eventually you’ll become ill. You need to get acquainted with your abilities, honor and acknowledge them.

As a booster/healer you need to know how to clean your aura by taking etheric showers or baths on a regular basis, clean your charkas and learn PROTECTION.

Disconnect from others. Its okay to love people and send loving energy thoughts but make sure you don’t take their pain. Visualize disconnecting yourself from others.

Wash your hands frequently. Washing helps breaking the connection with the one you worked on.
A shower before going to bed will clean not only your body but your auric field.

Protection is a MUST whether is in a form of a prayer, boosting, visualization or just a thought.

Fresh air, energy from sun or trees, proper diet and exercise will help. Contrary, lack of exercise improper diet, use of drugs alcohol, cigarettes, negative thinking, lack of oxygen, will tear your aura.

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 1:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Empathy


Among healers the sharing of energy is referred to as cording. This cord represents life support tubing energetically connecting two individuals together.

Empaths can be too easily sucked into emotional energies. They can unknowingly absorb others' pains. Those 'borrowed" emotional pains get trapped inside their own bodies and psyches.

When that happens the emotional fluxes throughout the Universe become compounded, much like a destructive fire that grows out of control. These absorbed emotional energies can manifest in a variety of negative ways for the empathic person: crying jags, sadness, desperation, confusion, grief, and so on.

Around your physical body, there is a layer of your aura that is devoted to your interface with your environment. Its shape and condition indicate your relationship to your world.

People who are empaths often have a "thin skin" in relation to their shield body. When it has holes in it, we are more easily influenced by our environment. Visualize a shield of energy around your physical body. See is as radiant and complete. You may see it as a particular color.

Some people like to see it as white or gold. Decide what color would work well for you, and see it that way. Imagine the shield body as flowing and moving..not static we are developing a shield here..not armor.

It is good for it to be flexible, so you can let in what serves you, and keep out what doesn't. Snap your fingers to hold it in place. Do this exercise regularly.

Empaths are often outwardly kind and caring. They usually get the benefit of everyone thinking that they are almost saintly sometimes. It is easy to get attached to being the "nice guy." It is not easy dealing with people's negative emotions, but care taking others does not ultimately serve them or you.



Develop Your Throat Chakra

Sometimes an empath will know what they need to say or do to make good boundaries, but have a hard time following through in expressing it. The throat chakra is the center for the expression of personal truth.

Through the opening of the throat chakra, we open ourselves to expressing our true needs and feelings, as well as expressing the creative force as it moves through us.

Some good exercises for opening the throat chakra are singing and chanting, sharing your feelings and thoughts with friends, and meditating on the throat chakra.

Some healing stones that help with the throat chakra are: chrysacolla, turquoise, lapis lazuli, amazonite, and blue lace agate.


Develop Your Root Chakra

The root chakra helps us to deal with being fully in the world. When the root chakra is open, we are fully grounded and present with whatever is coming our way.

When it is not open, we can be disassociative, fearful, and have difficulty staying present with what is going on. Opening and healing the root chakra helps us to release the fears that keep us from our highest manifestation within form. Some exercises that help to open the root chakra are:

Imagine you are sending roots down into the earth from your base.
Imagine you can breathe in and out of you root.
On the inhale, breath in energy from he earth.
On the exhale, release any thing that is within you that does not serve you.

Some healing stones that might be helpful are: obsidian, boji stones, hematite, and red jasper.

Clearing Regularly



Whether you are having difficulty with your empathic abilities or not, it is a good idea to ''clean'' yourself regularly to release other people's energy and influence from your energy body. Clearing methods are showering, bathing and spending time in solitude.


Another thing that I have found exceptionally helpful, it to carry around a boji stone. This remarkable stone has been proven by Kirlian photography to seal the auric field if kept on the person for 3 days or more.


Spiritual and Healing Properties of Fluorite:

Fluorite is used to prevent others from making unwanted energetic attachments. It is kinda like a sheild of energy that wards off undesired energy others may project towards you


Fluorite comes in many colors. It carries an energy that can bring a calming to chaos. It helps to restore a balance within the 4 levels that make us human; the mental, emotional, physical and spiritual. It helps you to be unbiased and to look at a situation from all sides. Fluorite



It does not help them to protect them from their feelings. It keeps them from growing up. besides, its not real. Must better to live in reality than a padded reality. Yes, they may get angry or sad at you or with you if you don't do what they want you to do, but it is important to remember that:

their feelings are not your feelings, and your well-being is not dependent on their well being

We can cease to practice being unconsciously empathic by 'creating' intentional bubbles of cushion energy around ourselves, and by having an intention to communicate telepathically (rather than empathically). Wink

Try it!
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PostPosted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 2:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Empathy when developed and controled can be used as a powerful psychic tool.

I remember many years ago when I was talking on the phone with a friend of mine I would always get depleted and had to go to sleep after the conversation. She used to tell me how nice and such a good friend I was to her and she would always feel better after talking to me.

I don’t remember which book I read about empathy and how to use psychic self defense, but here is the technique I used and it worked !!!

I crossed my feet at the ankles and folded my arms acrossed my solar plexus. I remember crossing my fingers as well, I don’t think that was in the book but I needed to be protected.. Hey!! It worked really well. My friend suddenly told me that I was cold towards her.
She is not a bad gal, but she was just “stealing” my energy without even knowing it. Later I realized that I needed to actually pray for her to help her get her energy from another source and not from me. That time I din’t know about boosting, but boosting togheter with praying works.

It is not fair to get depleted, there must be an exchange of energy always when you interact with someone. You give some energy , they will give some energy, as simple as that.

The meridians of the body terminate at the toes and fingers. Crossing feet and hands, you close the whole body energy circuit.

Another trick is look into someone’s left eye rather then right eye. The right eye is the sender of mental energies and if you look at it you can be more easily influenced.

Another one is do not face someone who can influence you mentally or emotionally, the solar plexus is the main point of entry, if you face someone better cover your solar plexus.

Lilly
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PostPosted: Sun May 14, 2006 8:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is a typical empathy response and the experience this woman had was very funny.
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Hi Lilly:

I had an interesting experience
Wednesday night. I was driving directly behind a drunk driver on a two-lane, winding mountain road. He was veering into the other lane, and going slowly, holding up a whole line of traffic behind me. I was nervous that he would have a head-on collision with on-coming traffic. I decided to try boosting him and prayed for him, asking for protection for all drivers on the road as well as him. All went well, he seemed to gain control of his driving, and after about 15 minutes, I turned off the road and he continued on. Then the strangest thing happened. When I pulled up to my house, as I got out of my car, it was impossible for me to walk straight, try as hard as I might. I was horribly dizzy for at least 5 minutes, and couldn't walk a straight line if you paid me! Now I think I performed the boost incorrectly, and inadvertently made an energetic exchange with this drunken man, rather than processed as a pure channel. I certainly would not have been able to pass the standard DUI "walk the line" test. I don't drink any alcohol, nor take any drugs, nor can I think of any reason that would cause this, nor has it ever happened before. Funny, I was fine until I got out of my car. Any comments on this?

I guess I need instructions in proper boosting techniques! LOL Thanks, Kyra
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Hi Kyra,

Your experience was funny indeed, Laughing you put smile on my face but I am glad you made it home safe though.

What happened as you correctly assumed was that you got your mental and emotional energy into the mix with the drunken man. This is a very good sample of an empathic response.
You are a natural empath and you picked up that man’s drunken state. This is a funny situation but in the future you need to acknowledge the power of your empathy, learn about it and work with it not against it. This can be a very strong tool to use as a healer. Healing is about compassion and love. I am saying this because boosting and praying makes you a healer. However knowing how to work with your empathy is important because you don’ want to take another’s problem, pain or distress That would solve the problem for them but that’s not a true healing. Healing means that the transfer of energy is done in harmony without making anyone sick or distressed.

I am very strong empath myself and learned my lessons the hard way. When I work on people and pick up pain, implants, nasty entities, bugs, bad energies, trouble areas I feel sick, sometimes really sick, depends on how bad the energy is.
But that doesn’t usually last long, its just a passing phase, that’s because I immediately work on the implant/bug/entity/cord sending it into the ground or into God’s space, seeing it neutralized and then I direct healing energy where it is needed. After I finish working I drink a glass of water and/or wash my hands and/or take an etheric shower as I don’t want to carry someone else’s energies. This way you break the connection between you and the one you exchanged the energy. As healers we need to be always healthy so we can help others and not suffer taking their pains or discomfort. Smile

I hope that helps, have fun and good luck with your boosting/healing.

Lilly
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when all about you are losing theirs
And blaming it on you... -- R. Kippling
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